“Everything happens for a reason”<\/p>\n
I’ve heard that a few times lately and I just really want to know…<\/p>\n
what the fuck does that mean?<\/p>\n
A girl breaks up with a guy and says to herself, “Everything happens for a reason…” to what? Comfort herself into thinking she didn’t make a mistake? You broke up with him — maybe you made a mistake, maybe you didn’t, but just because there’s a REASON you broke up with him, doesn’t mean that it was the right thing to do. Everything happens for a reason. Many, if not most, things happen for stupid, fucked up, WRONG reasons. Those are called MISTAKES.<\/p>\n
“I knew he was supposed to be in my life for a reason.”<\/p>\n
What the hell is that? You fatalistic pre-destination crazies are going to make my head explode again.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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