{"id":195,"date":"2002-09-23T21:08:00","date_gmt":"2002-09-23T21:08:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.illinoir.com\/wp\/?p=195"},"modified":"2002-09-23T21:08:00","modified_gmt":"2002-09-23T21:08:00","slug":"195","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.illinoir.com\/wp\/?p=195","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t know that I&#8217;ve ever admitted to anyone else that I have this problem with my tone and inflection. Likely because it&#8217;s never gotten to a point where I\/we were calm enough to get separated enough from defense mechanisms and ego to discuss it.<\/p>\n<p>And so that is why this is an amazing thing that we&#8217;ve got going here. <\/p>\n<p>It all happens when I immediately get defensive when someone else gets defensive&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Blahty blahty blah.<\/p>\n<p>The white hair growing near my eye socket will soon be long enough to comb back over and around my head, giving me a wicked cool white streak.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t know that I&#8217;ve ever admitted to anyone else that I have this problem with my tone and inflection. Likely because it&#8217;s never gotten to a point where I\/we were calm enough to get separated enough from defense mechanisms and ego to discuss it. And so that is why this is an amazing thing [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-195","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.illinoir.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/195","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.illinoir.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.illinoir.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.illinoir.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.illinoir.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=195"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.illinoir.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/195\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.illinoir.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=195"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.illinoir.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=195"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.illinoir.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=195"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}